We will train harder and harder.
We will not falter.
Skin in the Game
Delivered by people who’ve been there, an “I Love U Guys” Foundation training is a special blend of emotional heart and tactical takeaways. Our trainers’ stories from inside and behind school crises illustrate the importance of planning and preparing, while our easy-to-learn protocols and methods show you how.
Training, In Person And Online
We work with schools, districts, departments, agencies and organizations of all sizes. And we can work with resource-constrained organizations to help find underwriters.
In response to the COVID-19 crisis, we’ve developed remote options for most of our training options. Fewer hugs, same effectiveness.
This was the most focused, thoughtful, engaging, and ready to implement training that I have attended.
Stephen Owen Professor of Criminal Justice, Radford University
Got the Program? Get the Training.
Delivered by people who’ve been there, an “I Love U Guys” Foundation training is a special blend of emotional heart and tactical takeaways. Our trainers’ stories from inside and behind school crises illustrate the importance of planning and preparing, while our easy-to-learn protocols and methods show you how.
Today, we also have remote options for most of our training options. Fewer hugs, same effectiveness.
The “I Love U Guys” Foundation offers training to schools, districts, departments, agencies and organizations. While there is enough material on the website to implement the programs, Foundation training may add a bit more. Please contact us for rates and availability.


Breakout Sessions
Ideal for conferences and events, SRP or SRM Breakout Sessions introduce the concepts and history of the programs and how to implement the program in an educational environment.

Half-Day Seminars
Perfect for in-service days or training events, our Half-Day Seminars provide a comprehensive exploration of the Standard Response Protocol and the Standard Reunification Method. Our offerings include an SRP, SRM, or SRP/SRM half-day seminar that each provide valuable insights and practical strategies for crisis response and post-crisis reunification.

SRP/SRM FullDay Train the Trainer Workshop
The Full-Day Workshop introduces the history, concepts and functionality of the Standard Response Protocol (SRP) and the Standard Reunification Method (SRM), including implementation of the programs, team training, advanced questions, and plenty of opportunities for networking with your peers.
Participants will come away from this workshop able to train others within their organization on the SRP and the SRM.
Restrictions do apply. Completion of the workshop allows attendees to conduct training, at no cost to attendees, on the SRP and SRM within their local organization or jurisdiction for two (2) years. After two years, we encourage individuals to freshen up with our latest Train the Trainer Workshop.

SRM-REx Reunification Exercise
This 2-day course offers a day in the classroom and a day in the field, taking you through focused classroom training, tabletop discussions, and functional reunification exercises. All stakeholders in reunification are encouraged to take part in this exercise including district and school staff, public safety, emergency managers, mental health professionals, and community leaders.

Together REx (T-REx)
School safety software providers have utilized the Standard Reunification Method in their applications for years. We are piloting a new program with Raptor Technologies, T-REx (yes, we know, but we couldn’t resist). T-REx is a unique opportunity to learn the practical mechanics of the SRM and how it works using mobile and desktop technology.
T-REx follows the same agenda as the 2-day SRM-REx workshop and functional exercises, with the added bonus of seeing how the process works with technology.
The “I Love U Guys” Foundation does not endorse any specific commercial product mentioned on this website, training, or exercises.

The Briefings
The Briefings are nationally-recognized school and community safety symposiums that explore timely topics in school and community safety, as well as training on the Standard Response Protocol and Standard Reunification Method. While the Briefings’ historical roots are in Colorado, we’re branching out with Regional Briefings around the country. Register now for the upcoming regional Briefings.
Burlington, MA
November 2-3, 2023

Immersive Learning Experience
Choose from our half-day, full-day, or full-day with dual keynotes options led by nationally recognized leaders and practitioners. The Immersive Learning Experience features captivating keynote sessions and hands-on SRP and SRM workshops designed for skill development, with ample opportunities for networking with your peers.

Live Remote Training
Available in breakout, half-day, and full-day formats, we can deliver any of our in-person training online. Not your typical Zoom meeting, we’ve invested in high-definition cameras, microphones and software to live stream our training events.
Immersive Learning Experience
Our Immersive Learning Experience is your opportunity to gain actionable insights from nationally recognized leaders and practitioners in addition to participating in our SRP/SRM workshops. Whether you’re a seasoned professional or an aspiring leader, our events provide insights, strategies, and actionable takeaways that you can apply immediately, leaving you feeling empowered and equipped to tackle your goals with renewed vigor.

Half-Day Immersive Learning
The immersive half-day learning experience includes a captivating keynote session and an SRP/SRM breakout session designed to introduce the concepts and history of the programs.

Full-Day Immersive Learning
The immersive full-day learning experience includes a captivating keynote session and a half-day SRP/SRM workshop with ample opportunities for networking with your peers.

Full-Day Immersive Learning with Dual Keynote Addresses
The immersive full-day learning experience features two captivating keynote sessions led by nationally recognized leaders and practitioners, and a half-day SRP/SRM workshop equipping you with actionable insights to begin implementing these programs.
Live Remote Training
The “I Love U Guys” Foundation has a reputation for high-content, high-value, high-engagement trainings, and our live remote trainings are no different. Our Zoom sessions can hold up to 1000 attendees, so our live remote deliveries are perfect for training your entire staff when you cannot get everyone into one room. Plus, we will make the recordings available to you afterward!
Unfortunately, we are unable to monitor the engagement of our Zoomie participants, so none of our live remote training options are considered “train the trainers,” but the takeaways are just as valuable!

Breakout Sessions
Gather your staff in one “room” for a brief overview of the SRP or SRM. The Live Remote Breakout Sessions introduce the concepts and history of the programs and how to implement the program in an educational environment.

Half-Day Seminars
Perfect for in-service days, our Live Remote Half-Day Seminars are a great opportunity to gather all of your staff in one place without room capacity for a comprehensive exploration of the Standard Response Protocol and/or the Standard Reunification Method.

SRP/SRM Full-Day Workshop
The Live Remote Full-Day Workshop is an engaging virtual experience (yes, we can still have fun over Zoom) that introduces the history, concepts and functionality of the Standard Response Protocol (SRP) and the Standard Reunification Method (SRM), including the implementation of the programs, team training, and advanced questions.

July SRP Half-Day Seminar
Friday, July 7, 2023
9:00 am – 1:00 pm MT
Perfect for individuals or groups who want to learn more about crisis response, but are unable to host a training at their organization, the Live Remote SRP Half-Day Seminar covers the history, concepts, and functionality of the SRP, and how it provides a proven, action-based enhancement to all-hazards school safety planning.

July SRM Half-Day Seminar
Friday, July 14, 2023
9:00 am – 1:00 pm MT
Perfect for anyone looking for a deep dive into the reunification process, the Live Remote SRM Half-Day Seminar will go through the history, concepts, and functionality of the SRM, how it relates to the Standard Response Protocol, and how to get started on planning and practicing successful reunification in your organization.
Behind the Scenes
Take a behind-the-scenes glance at how we make the magic happen.

The Studios
We have three studios set up in Placitas, NM; Janesville, WI; and Denver, CO and we’ve retooled our content to match the medium.

The Gear
More than talking over a PowerPoint, Foundation online delivery uses high-definition cameras, microphones, and software to live stream our training events.

The Production
Our online training leverages our deep understanding of the “brain-science” behind multimedia learning. Strict 45-minute sessions with a 15-minute break is our standard.

The “Bear”
We’ve all probably had a “Zoomie” moment where all of the dogs in all of the rooms do a check in. Meet Baron. You might see him drop into a session.
Keynotes
The “I Love U Guys” Foundation keynotes are experiences that transform thoughts and ideas into action. That something can be done to prepare for the unthinkable, and what can happen when we don’t.
Delivered by people who’ve been there, our keynotes blend emotional heart with tangible paths forward with stories from inside and behind school crises They illustrate the importance of planning and preparing in a way only those who’ve been through it can.
If you are interested in booking one of our keynote sessions, please fill out our request form.

Anticipating The Unthinkable
Carly Posey tells her story of what happened inside Sandy Hook Elementary School on December 14, 2012. She shares what went wrong and right on that day and the years to follow.

The Black Swan
John-Michael Keyes connects the violent incident at Platte Canyon High School with the Black Swan Theory of improbable events. How the aftermath of tragedy is also in that category: that outcomes and programs of The “I Love U Guys” Foundation are unpredictably positive.

Leadership: Columbine Lessons: The 1999 tragedy at Columbine High School
The tragedy at Columbine redefined the nation. Dr. Frank DeAngelis tells his story from the events to the aftermath.

Arapahoe High Debrief – Law Enforcement
When the day we prepare and train for arrives, there are things we don’t expect. In this session, James Englert provides first-hand details of the shooting at Arapahoe High School from the perspective of a school resource officer (SRO) on scene.

Platte Canyon Debrief – Civilian
The tragic events on September 27th 2006 at Platte Canyon High School brought two unlikely people together: A.J. DeAndrea who devised and executed the tactical plan for the hostage rescue, and John-Michael Keyes who lost his daughter, Emily. The riveting point-counterpoint of their actions on that day are only part of the story.

Platte Canyon Debrief – Law Enforcement
This presentation gives a deep dive of the events and lessons learned at Platte Canyon High School from the law enforcement perspective. A.J. DeAndrea devised and executed the tactical plan for the hostage rescue, and John-Michael Keyes lost his daughter, Emily. A SWAT Team lead and a victim’s father share their experiences.

Platte Canyon Debrief – Negotiator
This presentation explores the interactions during the Platte Canyon High School events between a negotiator, Stacy Avila, and a 16 year old girl being held hostage. It’s a powerful affirmation of a negotiator and a victim’s father (John-Michael Keyes) sharing their experiences on that day and beyond.

When the Worst Happens: Interconnected Stories of Response, Recovery & Resilience.
Jordan Murphy and Carly Posey share lessons learned through their stories and experiences of the Aurora Theatre shooting and the Sandy Hook Elementary School shooting, and their unbreakable bond through tragedy.

Create and deliver better presentations despite PowerPoint
The true enemy of a great presentation is the brain of everyone in your audience. How it’s wired. How it works. How it explodes. (Figuratively, of course. None of us want actual exploding brains.) Carpe Audience exposes the science behind multimedia learning and reveals how many of today’s common practices actually induce cognitive overload.
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Standard Response Protocol – Breakout
Introduces the concepts and history of the SRP and how to implement the program in an educational environment.

Optional Materials

Course Description
Introduced in 2009, the Standard Response Protocol is a proven enhancement to school safety planning. Thousands of schools in the US and Canada have adopted the program.
SRP Breakout Session introduces the concepts and history of the SRP and how to implement the program in an educational environment.
Target Audience
Educators, Administrators, School and District Safety Teams, Campus Supervisors, Law Enforcement, Fire/EMS, Emergency Managers, Victim Advocates
Number of Students
20-250
Course Duration
45-90 minutes
Outcome
A basic understanding of the Standard Response Protocol
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive an overview of the Standard Response Protocol.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of how and why the SRP should be used as an all hazards school safety enhancement.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state a brief history of SRP,
- understand the reasoning behind the program, and
- recognize how it can be used in managing daily operational school-based events.
Standard Reunification Method – Breakout
Introduces the concepts and history of the SRM and how to implement the program from a district perspective.

Optional Materials

Course Description
Introduced in 2012, the Standard Reunification Method fills a critical void in school safety planning: How to reunite students with their parents after a crisis.
The SRM Breakout introduces the concepts and history of the SRM and how to implement the program from a district perspective.
Target Audience
Educators, Administrators, School and District Safety Teams, Campus Supervisors, Law Enforcement, Fire/EMS, Emergency Managers, Victim Advocates
Number of Students
20-250
Course Duration
45-90 minutes
Outcome
A basic understanding of the Standard Reunification Method
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive an overview of the Standard Reunification Method, explore case studies, and understand roles and expectations.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of how and why the SRM should be used in the aftermath of a crisis.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state a brief history of SRM
- understand the reasoning behind the program, and
- understand how to plan and conduct a student/parent reunification.
SRP/SRM Half Day Seminar
An Introduction to the Standard Response Protocol and the Standard Reunification Method
Course Description
Introduced in 2009, the Standard Response Protocol is a proven enhancement to school safety planning. Thousands of schools in the US and Canada have adopted the program.
Introduced in 2012, the Standard Reunification Method fills a critical void in school safety planning: How to reunite students with their parents after a crisis.
Also included in the training is a segment on Incident Command and how it relates to crisis management for educators.
Summary
SRP/SRM Half Day Seminar introduces the concepts and history of the SRP and the SRM and how to implement the programs.
Target Audience
Educators, Administrators, School and District Safety Teams, Campus Supervisors, Law Enforcement, Fire/EMS, Emergency Managers, Victim Advocates
Number of Students
20-250
Unit 1
Introductions
Duration
15 minutes
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive an overview and schedule of the SRP/SRM Seminar. Participants will complete administrative requirements including registration and training rosters.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will recognize the course goal, enabling objectives, course schedule, and course performance requirements.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state the goal and summarize objectives for the course,
- describe the course schedule and complete administrative requirements, and
- describe how participant performance is evaluated.
Unit 2
An Introduction to Incident Command
Duration
45 minutes
Scope Statement
This was developed to give participants a top-level, general understanding of the Incident Command System. It is based on the online training IS-100ScA available from FEMA.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of how and why Incident Command should be used in a crisis.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state a brief history of NIMS,
- understand basic Incident Command Structure, and
- recognize how it can be used in managing school-based events.
Unit 3
An Introduction to the Standard Response Protocol
Duration
90 minutes
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive an overview of the Standard Response Protocol.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of how and why the SRP should be used as an all hazards school safety enhancement.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state a brief history of SRP,
- understand the reasoning behind the program,
- recognize how it can be used in managing daily operational school-based events, and
- recognize the need for standard practices.
Unit 4
An Introduction to the Standard Reunification Method
Duration
90 minutes
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive an overview of the Standard Reunification Method, explore case studies, and understand roles and expectations.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of how and why the SRM should be used in the aftermath of a crisis.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state a brief history of SRM
- understand the reasoning behind the program, and
- understand how to plan and conduct a student/parent reunification.
Provided Materials


SRP/SRM Full Day Train the Trainer Workshop
An Advanced Introduction to the Standard Response Protocol and the Standard Reunification Method
Course Description
Introduced in 2009, the Standard Response Protocol is a proven enhancement to school safety planning. Thousands of schools in the US and Canada have adopted the program.
Introduced in 2012, the Standard Reunification Method fills a critical void in school safety planning: How to reunite students with their parents after a crisis.
Also included in the training is a segment on Incident Command and how it relates to crisis management for educators.
Summary
SRP/SRM Full Day Train the Trainer Workshop introduces the concepts and history of the SRP and the SRM and how to educate students and staff in the programs and strategies to implement the programs.
Number of Students
20-300
Course Guidelines
Completion of the workshop allows attendees to conduct training within their organization for two (2) years. After two years, the individual must attend another Train the Trainer Workshop, as materials are updated periodically. Please note:
- Trainers are not able to train others to become trainers.
- Trainers are not able to train people at other districts, agencies, organizations.
- Trainers are not able to sell their services or otherwise profit from training others.
Target Audience
Educators, Administrators, School and District Safety Teams, Campus Supervisors, Law Enforcement, Fire/EMS, Emergency Managers, Victim Advocates
Unit 1
Introductions
Duration
15 minutes
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive an overview and schedule of the SRP/SRM Seminar. Participants will complete administrative requirements including registration and training rosters.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will recognize the course goal, enabling objectives, course schedule, and course performance requirements.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state the goal and summarize objectives for the course,
- describe the course schedule and complete administrative requirements, and
- describe how participant performance is evaluated.
Unit 2
An Introduction to Incident Command
Duration
45 minutes
Scope Statement
This was developed to give participants a top-level, general understanding of the Incident Command System. It is based on the online training IS-100ScA available from FEMA.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of how and why Incident Command should be used in a crisis.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state a brief history of NIMS,
- understand basic Incident Command Structure, and
- recognize how it can be used in managing school-based events.
Unit 3
An Introduction to the Standard Response Protocol
Duration
90 minutes
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive an overview of the Standard Response Protocol.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of how and why the SRP should be used as an all hazards school safety enhancement.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state a brief history of SRP,
- understand the reasoning behind the program,
- recognize how it can be used in managing daily operational school-based events, and
- recognize the need for standard practices.
Unit 4
An Introduction to the Standard Reunification Method
Duration
90 minutes
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive an overview of the Standard Reunification Method, explore case studies, and understand roles and expectations.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of how and why the SRM should be used in the aftermath of a crisis.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state a brief history of SRM
- understand the reasoning behind the program, and
- understand how to plan and conduct a student/parent reunification.
Unit 5
An Introduction to the Standard Reunification Method
Duration
90 minutes
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive an overview of the Standard Reunification Method, explore case studies, and understand roles and expectations.
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of how and why the SRM should be used in the aftermath of a crisis.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- state a brief history of SRM
- understand the reasoning behind the program, and
- understand how to plan and conduct a student/parent reunification.
Unit 6
The Reunification Operation Kit
Duration
30 minutes
Scope Statement
In this module, participants are introduced to resources and tools to build Reunification Operation Kits (ROK).
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants achieve an understanding of how to create a ROK.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- level of effort necessary in planning,
- understand the reasoning behind the program, and
- how to conduct a student/parent reunification.
Unit 7
Planning and Executing a Reunification Exercise
Duration
45 minutes
Scope Statement
In this module, participants will receive information on how to plan and execute a live practical reunification exercise
Terminal Learning Objective
Participants will gain an understanding of the procedures and challenges in conducting a live reunification exercise.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- plan a reunification exercise, and
- have theoretical knowledge of conducting a reunification exercise.
Unit 8 (Optional)
Instructional Development
Duration
60 minutes
Scope Statement
Participants will receive an overview of Multimedia Learning Theory and how it applies to presentation of materials.
Terminal Learning Objective
Upon completion of this module, participants will understand human cognitive processes, multimedia learning theory, and natural human attention barriers.
Enabling Learning Objectives
At the conclusion of this module, participants will be able to
- understand dual channel information processing and retention,
- understand and identify cognitive overload triggers and prevention, and
- understand how to develop relevant presentation visuals.
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Mission
To restore and protect the joy of youth through educational programs and positive actions in collaboration with families, schools, communities, organizations and government entities.